Forgive & Forget

I’ve schedule this post for a while now and keep pushing the dates for no particular reason but I woke up today with the urge to post new content. I spent 2 hours last night doing beauty routines while watching Patricia Bright videos on youtube and her positivity definitely inspired me. On that note, I will start posting new content on tuesdays, thursdays, and saturdays. Saturdays will be beauty, lifestyle, or travel posts since that is something that I don’t really post about but want to.

Now for the real reason for this post…

I use to be a person who would hold grudges for ages up until the point where I would forget why I was mad at that person yet still continue being mad at them. However a few years back I voluntarily made the choice to no longer do so. This decision changed a lot of aspects in my life and made me a more positive person.

I believe in forgiving but never forgetting because: fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. But is it possible to truly forgive without forgetting? I asked myself this question a few days ago when I was overviewing a situation with a friend of mine.

I’m  generally a very positive person so my friend was surprised about my pessimism over the situation. He advised me not to keep anger in me because it will just keep growing and in the end make me a bitter person.

I agreed.

People make mistakes and even if some situations aren’t mistakes but intentional, at least you get to see a different light on that person  and you can make better judgements of them in the future.

A friend of mine repeatedly says “Everything happens for a reason”, though I’m always mocking her for saying that I truly believe that, things happen either for experience or a lesson.

I was wearing…

Zara Silk Blouse (Similar here & here)
Michael Kors Pants
Velour Slippers
Fendi Tote
Dior Shades

Agnes Bee x

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